116. The Most Discouraging Words You Hear Are Your Own
September 17, 2026
The most damaging words you hear often don’t come from critics—they come from you. Phrases like “I’m a failure,” “Nothing ever works for me,” or “I’m not good enough” can quickly become the story you believe, affecting your confidence, your decisions, and the way you show up.
In this episode, Chad explains how to recognize and replace destructive self-talk without pretending everything is perfect. Through personal experiences, practical reframes, and the unforgettable story of a student whose incorrect SAT score changed the way he saw himself, Chad demonstrates how powerfully our beliefs influence our performance.
Your current circumstances do not define you. You may be disappointed, but you are not defeated. When you change the way you speak to yourself, you can change the story you believe—and ultimately, the person you become.